If They Say It, Are They?
One man’s poison is another man’s meat. This is true also in what we consider triple x fare and gonzo porn. To one couple a fetish for spanking might be something they think is so depraved that they shun all porn that even hints at it, for others porn can never be nasty enough and what they do in their bedroom nightly with sex toys and threesomes has the entire neighborhood talking! It follows to that when a guy or girl come online or go looking for Xxx dating the definition of what a Xxx date can be differs from person to person.
And what makes a Xxx dating site for one person doesn’t even pass muster for another.
There’s no one specific rule for what makes a site triple X and what doesn’t. As with most things on the net, what we look for, what we put in is what we get out. The web is merely a depository for the population that uses it therefore whatever our hopes, dreams and sexual fantasies if there are enough other people sharing them we might find them represented across the net. And if we happen to believe a fetish site where like-minded kinsters meet is indeed a Xxx dating site, then that’s exactly what it is. If social portal facilitates dirty chat and only dirty chat then this is a Xxx dating site for those people who want to date only online. As there is no true definition of what is Xxx from person to person we can’t define really what is a Xxx dating site and what isn’t when sites boast being so.
We can tell though when a site isn’t when it reports not being so, that’s easy. Although some people might log on to an eHarmony or Facebook even looking for a nasty casual sex encounter these sites are set-up not as Xxx dating sites and truly aren’t. Daters might pervert them into secret points of naughty rendezvous but a benign match-making site or friendly portal will never have the intent, mild or world though we might think it is, of a true Xxx dating site.
